I was materialistic before cancer.

My mum would most definitely not agree with me on this one; she loves diamonds, Chanel jackets and the finer things in life.

I used to believe I liked all those things too; they mattered to her so I wanted them to matter to me. I had a great collection of designer shoes, made sure I drank and ate in the trendiest of places and then got diagnosed with cancer.

Those materialistic needs and wants were one of the first things to go after I finished my treatment. Those things just didn’t define who I was anymore; so much other stuff had become so much more important.

A transformation took place while I was busy surviving cancer, and I was too busy focus on staying alive to notice the profound changes that were happening inside of me. But one thing is for sure, when you’re dealing with a bald head and no eyebrows or lashes a pair of 5 inch Jimmy Choos are not on the top of your list of priorities!

And 5 inch heels never became a priority for me again. In fact, after the pain of chemo needles, mastectomies and the side effects of medication, I can’t conceive putting myself through more discomfort by putting sticks under my feet and trying to balance on them! Wedges are much more my thing now.

I still walk past a shop window and drool at a beautiful designer dress. Is it gorgeous? Yes. Would I look amazing in it? Most definitely. Do I need it? Absolutely not. Will my life be emptier without it? Certainly not.

My priorities have changed since surviving cancer, that’s what surviving a trauma does to a person,.. it changes them profoundly, forever.

Human connections, meaningful authentic relationships, are a priority for me now. Laughing with a friend whilst walking my dogs in the forest is a trillion times better than a shopping spree.

Cancer showed me what’s important, what really matters, and it sure ain’t diamonds and sports cars people! It’s love, it’s all about the love.

Has anyone else had a similar change of heart and mind post cancer treatment? I would love to hear about your experiences. Human connections remember? Why not try it!

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